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STOP SMOKING, SISTER!

BY Patricia L. Brooks


Almost twice as many women will die of lung cancer this year as breast cancer - 70,000 versus 40,000. Lung cancer has a 15% survival rate while breast cancer is 88% and rising. Most women worry more about their breasts than their lungs. There is 10 times more marketing, fund raising, and research for breasts, yet our lungs are at the top of the cancer high-risk list!

Cigarettes contain acetone, the same entity we find in nail polish. Cigarettes are made with carbon monoxide, equivalent to what we encounter on the freeway – a pollutant to the environment. Cigarettes are finished off with the most addictive drug – nicotine - which is also used in insecticides - more pollution. Would you drink nail polish, snort from you car’s tail pipe or ingest your garden supplies. Then ask yourself why you smoke, stand by, and watch your girlfriends smoke or allow your daughters or sisters to smoke without trying to intervene?

The “Stop Smoking, Sister!” campaign launched with my book Gifts of Sisterhood - a celebration of my youngest sister’s life to lung cancer when she was just 44 years old is my passion. Please help me bring attention to the necessity for more research, awareness, and compassion in the area of lung cancer, especially for women. There is no stigma in having lung cancer.

This call to action takes exception to the tobacco industry targeting women smoking as glamorous and contributing to weight loss. Join the fight against polluting the environment with second hand smoke. This is not about lost jobs in the tobacco industry or stock prices falling; this is about saving lives and valuing women; an earnest campaign for all our sisters lost to lung cancer.

My sister was smoke free for 12 years at the time of her misdiagnosis. Her family doctor said pneumonia, but later the doctors at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester gave her six months to live a lifetime. They took out a lung and she fought for almost three years.
Her vibrant beautiful self faded quickly; her fresh look without make-up, her clean cut appearance and her sparkling eyes as green as Ireland’s dawn and that freckled face with its mischievous smile are gone. Did she not know we would miss her so much it would hurt forever; just subsiding a little each year because grief does somehow get acceptable and we finally share our grief’s journey with others?

The force of the tobacco industry’s “slick” marketing efforts, lies and poisons all contribute to an abuse of women and several generations of beauty passing away unnecessarily. We must stop it now from happening to the next generations. Anger is still there today in my call to action to you because you too can buy time, probably a lifetime for your family, your children or anyone else in your path just by stopping now. Secondhand smoke is critical to the health and well-being of our community, especially to women - 20% of the over 70,000 women that died last year of lung cancer never smoked!

Join the “Stop Smoking, Sister!” campaign in memory of the 70,000 women who will die this year of lung cancer so they do not die in vain. Help me and the millions of others in the state of AZ and other states around the country to stomp out smoking by supporting the smoking bans – the one in AZ goes into effect May 1, 2007. We need to wage a war against the evils of smoking and the big business of this legal drug.

More women then men die of lung cancer; we are more susceptible to the hazards of this poisonous product. God made us unique with lung cancer too – our battle is distinctive and needs special attention now or the war will be lost forever. We respond differently to the pollutants involved with smoking, to the lung cancer itself and to the possible treatments – estrogen is found in the lung cancer tumors of women!

It is not easy to quit – this is an addiction to a powerful drug. You need help – ask for it. You need support – seek it out. You need a reason to quit – journal a gratitude list. You need faith that you can do it – seek God’s help, and others around you that have done it – call or email me for referrals. There are many programs available if you are willing to change and to seek help.

Quitting is possible. I have done it too – not as a former smoker – but as a former drinker. My time came almost 24 years ago when I realized I was hurting myself and others, when something evil had a hold of me. We must let it go before it destroys us. Just because a drug is legal does not make it acceptable. Just because nothing bad has happened yet does not mean that disaster is not lurking right around the corner!

Will you allow this industry to flourish for another decade and for another 70,000 women to die next year and the year after just because you have not been injured yet by this horrible drug? Please seek more information from the Lung, Cancer, or Heart Associations – they will give you more ammunition to stop smoking and to live a smoke free life.

Because of second-hand smoke from my father, a three-pack-a-day smoker and living in a major city for the past 30 years that ranks very high on the pollution index, I now have seasonal asthma. Taking excellent care of myself, avoiding smokers and smoking areas helps, but some of my efforts have been thwarted. The smoking ban in AZ and you will be more help. God bless you for taking action at this time.
 


Contact Patricia L. Brooks, MAOM at patricia@plbrooks.com
or 480-250-5556 -Speaker for Journey from Grief to Gratitude or Stop Smoking Sister! Workshops and Author of Gifts of Sisterhood found on Web Site www.plbrooks.com
President/Founder/P. L. Brooks Seminars, LLC
 

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